Yesterday was Peggy's 46th Birthday. I guess when people have passed away you should say "it would have been Peggy's 46th Birthday". But do we really need to say that? As I have said before Peggy "is" alive with Christ. She "is" enjoying her victory with Jesus today! Peggy was born into this world 46 years ago and that is something to celebrate. The only thing is the guest of honor cannot be with us in physical form. But we have the memories, the stories, the tears and the laughs we shared with her. The more we talk about her and those memories, the more we can embrace a celebration of her life.
That is what goes on in the Wolf home. I was up there with Larry and the kids yesterday. They have constant memories of Peggy and she is brought up in conversation all the time and all so naturally. It is not this taboo topic in their home. The past year has been a difficult one, but one of perpetual celebration of Peggy. I was in the car, driving over to the cemetery with Larry and Josh. I had a cd playing in the car. Having listened often to the song that was playing, Larry said, "Josh, remember Mommy use to turn the volume up right at this point, all the time when we would sing it!". Larry is very naturally bringing up memories of Peggy with the family. We do the same. It is so refreshing and so healthy. The Lord continues to give us peace as to where Peggy is. The Wolf Family is doing great. Things are not easy, the future is not clear, but Larry is navigating the future one step at a time, with the Lord's direction. Above is a photo taken yesterday at Peggy's memorial.
Our celebration of Peggy's birthday can be for Peggy and our memories with her. Also, imagine this is her first birthday celebration in heaven. Will Grandma Duax, Grandma Tobin and Grandma Wright be there? Will some of Peggy's Friends who have passed away be there?" Heck, will our childhood dog Pepper be there? Will she feel the love and hear our thoughts and conversations about her? Not sure...but.... I can say that the Lord will make it a perfect day for her!!
Happy Birthday Peggy!!
1 comment:
What a beautiful tribute to your sister on her birthday Joe! You are all shining examples of the power of living with Christ in your heart. Blessings to all of you, Peggy must be smiling in a huge way!!
Sincerely,
Eric
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